OUR PAIN ISN'T A JOKE
Drum English|26 March 2020
Four years ago her family thought she was dead and they buried her – now they’re trying to come to terms with her shock return
NOSIPIWO MANONAA
OUR PAIN ISN'T A JOKE

THE red crosses dotting Motherwell cemetery stand out among the many grey gravestones, but it’s not easy to find Nokuthula Mjekula’s grave.

The mom of five was laid to rest in 2016 but the recent revelation that she’s still alive, and that an unknown woman was buried in her place, left her loved ones reeling.

And instead of celebrating her return, Nokuthula (41) is battling to settle back into her community.

“Who can live a normal life when there is a grave with their name on it?” she says.

Nokuthula’s “resurrection,” has brought insults from superstitious neighbours and fearful children calling her “zombie” and “ghost”. She became a cruel joke when her grieving g mother was shown on SABC1’s Cutting Edge, wailing her daughter’s name.

In fact, her name became a hashtag and DJ Maphorisa cashed in on the hash-htag with a remix of Phoyisa, featuring the gogo calling out, “Nokuthula!”

Her return has brought more pain than her “death”, says Nomahomba Mjekula (51), Nokuthula’s sister.

Nokuthula vanished from her home in Motherwell, Port Elizabeth, on 26 August 2016, leaving behind her four children (now 15, 13, 7 and 5) with her family.

Her family last saw her that day before they left for a funeral in Peddie, nearly 190km away. Neighbours who saw Nokuthula leave said she told them she was going to Cape Town, where she’d lived previously – but she hadn’t mentioned any travel plans to those close to her.

Her family reported her disappearance, then – for two agonising weeks – lay awake at night, terrified at what might have happened to her, recalls Nomahomba.

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ابدأ النسخة التجريبية المجانية من Magzter GOLD لمدة 7 أيام للوصول إلى آلاف القصص المتميزة المنسقة وأكثر من 9,000 مجلة وصحيفة.

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