I Have My Voice Back At Last
YOU South Africa|5 December 2019
She’s a computer nerd-turned-stay-at-home mom, a devout Catholic who took the contraceptive pill to Africa. In a deeply honest interview, Melinda Gates talks about her need to give back and the dark secret that haunted her for decades
Juliet Rieden
I Have My Voice Back At Last

SHE’D been working at Microsoft for just four months when her boss asked her out on a date. This was the whip-smart Bill Gates, CEO of the company, and his snappy chat-up line after they struck up a conversation in the office car park, was, “Would you go out with me two weeks from Friday night?”

Melinda Gates laughs as she recalls that moment in 1987. “I was a young girl; I didn’t know what my calendar was going to be two weeks from Friday night. I did tease him and said, ‘That’s not really quite spontaneous enough for me.’ So, he asked me for my phone number and I gave it to him. An hour later he called me at my apartment and said, ‘Well, how about tonight?’ ”

That was more like it.

The date ended up being a late-night drink since Bill had two other appointments on his schedule that evening – he wasn’t faking it; he really was a busy man – but it sparked a union that’s moved mountains.

Today Bill and Melinda Gates are in the top 10 most powerful people in the world, not just because of the fortune they made from Microsoft, but because of the billions they choose to give away in a bid to fix the world’s biggest issue – poverty. It’s a towering aspiration and as I later discover, the need to give back was a major part of what brought these two computer nerds together.

Melinda was raised in Dallas, Texas, the second of four children born to Apollo programme aerospace engineer Raymond French and stay-at-home mom Elaine. She says she was lucky to have great role models in the progressive nuns who introduced a computer into the Catholic school she attended early on, giving her a jumpstart into a world that was to become her passion.

“I definitely hoped and dreamed of going to college, for sure, and I knew that I wanted to study computer science and to be both a businesswoman and a mom,” Melinda adds.

هذه القصة مأخوذة من طبعة 5 December 2019 من YOU South Africa.

ابدأ النسخة التجريبية المجانية من Magzter GOLD لمدة 7 أيام للوصول إلى آلاف القصص المتميزة المنسقة وأكثر من 9,000 مجلة وصحيفة.

هذه القصة مأخوذة من طبعة 5 December 2019 من YOU South Africa.

ابدأ النسخة التجريبية المجانية من Magzter GOLD لمدة 7 أيام للوصول إلى آلاف القصص المتميزة المنسقة وأكثر من 9,000 مجلة وصحيفة.

المزيد من القصص من YOU SOUTH AFRICA مشاهدة الكل
HOW TO BE YOUR OWN THERAPIST
YOU South Africa

HOW TO BE YOUR OWN THERAPIST

With more and more of us struggling with our mental health, here's a common-sense guide to coping with life's ups and downs

time-read
5 mins  |
5 December 2024
SPUD: THE MAGIC CONTINUES
YOU South Africa

SPUD: THE MAGIC CONTINUES

John van de Ruit tells us why he decided to write a sequel - and shares how his first book helped him find enduring love

time-read
5 mins  |
5 December 2024
SEX CONTRACT GONE WRONG
YOU South Africa

SEX CONTRACT GONE WRONG

A Cape Town couple have been charged with using a young woman as a sex slave-but some say she lost the job she signed up for and now has a grudge against them

time-read
4 mins  |
5 December 2024
LIAM LAID TO REST
YOU South Africa

LIAM LAID TO REST

More than a month after One Direction singer LIAM PAYNE (31) tragically fell to his death from a balcony in Buenos Aires, Argentina, his loved ones finally got to say their goodbyes.

time-read
1 min  |
5 December 2024
SHILOH HANGS OUT
YOU South Africa

SHILOH HANGS OUT

THE two young women look like any pair of good friends chatting and laughing as they leave their dance class in Los Angeles.

time-read
1 min  |
5 December 2024
LEO IN LOVE
YOU South Africa

LEO IN LOVE

He's just turned 50 and it seems Leonardo DiCaprio may finally be ready to settle down

time-read
3 mins  |
5 December 2024
PACKING A PUNCH
YOU South Africa

PACKING A PUNCH

Irish actor Paul Mescal beefed up for his role in the blockbuster epic Gladiator II - and fans are loving it

time-read
4 mins  |
5 December 2024
I DIDN'T CHOOSE TO BE A LOVE CHILD
YOU South Africa

I DIDN'T CHOOSE TO BE A LOVE CHILD

As the illegitimate daughter of the king, she fought to be recognised as part of Belgium's royal family, but Princess Delphine says she still feels unwelcome

time-read
5 mins  |
5 December 2024
'I STILL HAVE NIGHTMARES'
YOU South Africa

'I STILL HAVE NIGHTMARES'

A bite from a spitting cobra 13 years ago nearly killed her but Mikayla survived - and she's made peace with her scars

time-read
4 mins  |
5 December 2024
THE CLAWS ARE OUT!
YOU South Africa

THE CLAWS ARE OUT!

Things have grown frosty between the Beckhams and the Sussexes as Becks comes out in clear support of William

time-read
7 mins  |
5 December 2024