![Why You Need to Fall Apart to Keep It Together](https://magarticles.magzter.com/articles/268/455320/5ec636c484863/Relationship.jpg)
So once upon a time Girl A’s boyfriend broke up with her, claiming he wasn’t ready for anything serious. And this was just after introducing her to his parents! So what did Girl A do to make herself feel better? She put on her best dress, dolled up, and went to the hottest party in town. She said she was fine, and that it was his loss (it was!). She unknowingly— or knowingly—may have been hurting from the inside, but on the outside, she was the life of the party! After all, she’s strong and brave...she runs the world! Girl A’s friends also applauded her ‘strong’ and ‘fierce’ attitude and even look to her for inspiration. Even Girl A mentally high-fives herself. She then posts a selfie, captioning it #Slay.
A few weeks or months later, Girl A has a small breakdown. After weeks of going out and distracting herself, she wakes up one morning with strange feelings of sadness, betrayal, and anger. She lies in bed sick—she’s caught something, but no doctor can tell her what it is. Because what she has caught is what we all catch at some point in our lives—feelings!
Girl A has been many of us. We go into the good old denial mode and convince ourselves we’re totally okay...that a heady cocktail of distraction, sternly positive selftalk, and time will heal the hurt. That we’ll get over it all, because that is much easier than acknowledging the discomfort. After all, ‘Feelings are for the weak’—that’s what we tell ourselves, to justify our ruthless and unkind approach to what we’re unwilling to face.
هذه القصة مأخوذة من طبعة April - May 2020 من Cosmopolitan India.
ابدأ النسخة التجريبية المجانية من Magzter GOLD لمدة 7 أيام للوصول إلى آلاف القصص المتميزة المنسقة وأكثر من 9,000 مجلة وصحيفة.
بالفعل مشترك ? تسجيل الدخول
هذه القصة مأخوذة من طبعة April - May 2020 من Cosmopolitan India.
ابدأ النسخة التجريبية المجانية من Magzter GOLD لمدة 7 أيام للوصول إلى آلاف القصص المتميزة المنسقة وأكثر من 9,000 مجلة وصحيفة.
بالفعل مشترك? تسجيل الدخول
![Listen? You Need To Stop Making Your Crush Uncomfortable](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/KPYq2F8-X1717765205376/crp_LISTEN-YOU-NEED-TO-STOP-MAKING-YOUR-CRUSH-UNCOMFORTABLE.jpg)
Listen? You Need To Stop Making Your Crush Uncomfortable
And yes, you might just be doing it involuntarily.
![Hands Up If You've Been To Forgetting Apply SPF To These Areas](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/J3uqgFL7C1717761431335/crp_HANDS-UP-IF-YOUVE-BEEN-TO-FORGETTING-APPLY-SPF-TO-THESE-AREAS.jpg)
Hands Up If You've Been To Forgetting Apply SPF To These Areas
“Raises hand* and instantly reaches for sun protection
![Is Social Media Really A Free Space?](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/putc81Ma01717766174989/crp_IS-SOCIAL-MEDIA-REALLY-A-FREE-SPACE.jpg)
Is Social Media Really A Free Space?
We're always rooting for self-expression...especially on the internet. But a friendly and important—reminder to proceed with caution.
![PAMPER YOUR BABY WITH A LUXE SKINCARE EXPERIENCE](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/3Hvq59_hm1718011429708/PAMPER-YOUR-BABY-WITH-A-LUXE-SKINCARE-EXPERIENCE.jpg)
PAMPER YOUR BABY WITH A LUXE SKINCARE EXPERIENCE
Baby care brand CITTA offers products that are perfect for newborns and kids with the most sensitive skin
![Are we all Letterboxd-pilled?](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/E4v52rcSh1717766347195/ARE-WE-ALL-LETTERBOXDPILLED.jpg)
Are we all Letterboxd-pilled?
Film study grad or not, everyone's a critic now!
![Burning bright](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/5kTYzZ7HL1717765824128/BURNING-BRIGHT.jpg)
Burning bright
Cosmo India speaks to six creators about how they handle the grind and the toll it takes on their bodies and minds.
![MATCH POINT: Polyamory & the green-eyed monster](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/KCZkvT9Eu1717765525973/MATCH-POINT-POLYAMORY-THE-GREENEYED-MONSTER.jpg)
MATCH POINT: Polyamory & the green-eyed monster
While the concept is still more nascent than normative in India, traditionalists have one big question: what becomes of the jealousy?
![Hello, 2024's dating lingo for you](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/C8D-mOmu21717765367950/HELLO-2024S-DATING-LINGO-FOR-YOU.jpg)
Hello, 2024's dating lingo for you
Fresh ways to complicate your life this season.
![Fillers on your mind?](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/kIeb_5Jp91717764889915/FILLERS-ON-YOUR-MIND.jpg)
Fillers on your mind?
Cosmo intern Jia Noor Singh Bhandal's (very) quick and (very) easy take on the cosmetic procedure.
![A nifty textbook guide to cleaning your beauty shelfie](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/268/1725325/oXj_EuTTS1717761624869/A-NIFTY-TEXTBOOK-GUIDE-TO-CLEANING-YOUR-BEAUTY-SHELFIE.jpg)
A nifty textbook guide to cleaning your beauty shelfie
Sorry, but it is time to finally throw away your three-year-old dried out mascara.