Adoption 101

Here’s your ready-reckoner for everything you’d need to know on the process in India

- KRISELLE FONSECA

While adoption still remains a taboo in most parts of India, it does not take away from the fact that it is one of the most successful alternative ways of having a family. Inability to conceive naturally is now not the only reason why adoption is the way to go. Many singles and couples are now considering adoption as a first and only option for them, and bask in the ability to love, care for and support a child, to give her a new lease of life. These people are the ones that truly carry these babies in their hearts rather than in their DNA. In India, like every where, there are a number of rules and regulations to abide by, when adopting a child. As you prepare to welcome your very own under your roof, here’s a comprehensive guide to help you sift through the information, and get on with your desire to bring home your baby...

FIRST THINGS FIRST

The decision to adopt isn’t an easy one, and before you apply, it is important that you and your significant other are on the same page about the adoption. Have a no-holds-barred conversation with each other and assess why this is the correct option for you. “I believe you should never force your partner to adopt. You can’t run this race alone if you are married. Don’t just adopt to fill the void in your heart, created by infertility, and treat it like it’s the only option you are left with. Don’t treat adoption as a filler—just like having a baby the natural way is a huge decision, so is adoption” says Sunita Chand, mum to three siblings Samuel, David and Isaac.