Why Women Shouldn't Be Too Comfortable

The demands of life can be hectic but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t spend time on looking sexy for your man

- Mo and Phindi Grootboom

GENERALLY when a man concerns himself too much about how shabby his woman looks, it’s usually because she is so comfortable around him that she has really ‘let herself go’. And in your case, it’s deeply concerning that you have so many financial demands that you feel you’ll be wasting your resources by spending it on how you look.

FEELING MORE SPECIAL

You may also find that your husband wants you to “dress up” for him because it makes him feel special. The fact that you would take the time to put your make-up on, look sexy and do your hair gives him a sense of feeling more special. Perhaps also he sees so much beauty in you that he likes to see you proudly showing it. It may also be just a case of egotistical trip where he wants to show you off as some kind of a trophy.

BECOMING HIS TROPHY

The problem with many women is that they keep assuming that men have the same beliefs about relationships as they do. Men generally care a lot more about their status, and they are willing to go to any extent to show that status off.