In-laws In Peace

How to Get Along With Your Daughter-in-law

You know how it goes. There’s the look from your daughter-in-law that says you’ve given the grandkids too much sugar – and that’s on top of the comment about whether you’ll be staying for dinner… again. All the while you’re thinking about how much you do for your son’s family, especially his wife, who makes such a big deal out of how busy she is. If this scenario sounds familiar, take heart in knowing it plays out all over the country.

Psychological therapist Annie Gurton says in-law relationships are often complicated. Here are some strategies to repair and strengthen the bond.

UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER

When a son finds his life partner, it can generate conflicting emotions for a mother. Along with happiness and excitement, some women feel a sense of loss. And his partner may have concerns about her mother-in-law (MIL) and whether she’ll interfere in their marriage.