Mark Lukach’s life was perfect – until his wife was diagnosed with a mental illness. This is his story…
In the fairy tales we read to our children and the films we watch at the cinema, we’re often told the same story – a couple meet, they fall in love, and they live happily ever after. and when I met Giulia, even at just 18 years old, I knew that I’d found The one. But, while we got married and had our son, ours is not a typical love story. Because, in September 2009, Giulia had a psychotic breakdown. The woman I knew disappeared, and I wondered if we’d ever be happy again…
I met Giulia in August 2000 during our first year of university. Funny, smart, and way out of my league, I couldn’t believe she was interested in me. But, from the moment we kissed, we were a couple. Whether it was watching a movie or crashing a wedding together (yes, one night, Giulia convinced me to put on a tux and join in the fun!), I was happy.
Increasing anxiety
After graduation, in September 2005, I proposed and we got married 10 months later. Our evening ritual was to have a meal and dance our way through washing up. I’d look at my wife,shimmying around the kitchen, and wonder how I’d got so lucky.
In July 2009, Giulia, then 27, got a new job in marketing. When she came home after her first day, she mumbled something about not being able to keep up with her colleagues. I put it down to nerves, but she grew more anxious.
She’d call me for reassurance, and ask me to check her emails before sending them. Some were only a sentence, but she said they’d taken hours. Soon, she refused to eat and stopped sleeping.
Then, in September 2009, I woke up to find Giulia pacing our bedroom. ‘I heard voices,’ she said. ‘I heard the devil.’
In that moment, I stared at Giulia in utter disbelief. Surely, this strange person wasn’t my wife. This had to be a scene from some awful film.
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