Are Adult Friendships Really that Hard; Why Not Make the Effort?
The New Indian Express|December 01, 2024
Despite the plethora of digital platforms that promise connection and community, 79 per cent of GenZs and 71 per cent millennials describe themselves as lonely.
Utkarsh Amitabh

In the US, 12 per cent of adults say that they have no close friends. While finding avenues for connection have increased exponentially over the years, maintaining friendships, especially adult friendships, have become harder.

Life gets busy.

Work becomes demanding. People have other important stuff to take care of but that doesn't quite explain the phenomena.

Friendships fade away gradually, then suddenly.

Slowly people get comfortable with not making the effort to see their friends. There could be that occasional text but the willingness to do something together or partake of a shared adventure tends to reduce over time.

Evenings for most are dedicated to Netflix and weekends to the chores that have piled on from the week.

This isn't true for everybody; I am referring to a broader trend I have observed over the years.

'Netflix and chores' is the more predictable option with minimal chances of disappointment. A friend could cancel plans last minute but the Netflix show will be ready to delight you the moment you press the button.

We have been nudged into the humdrum of efficiency at work and predictability at leisure.

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THE Supreme Court on Monday agreed to examine the legal question of whether the ED possessed powers under the anti-money laundering law to attach properties in the absence of a prior FIR for scheduled offences.

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SC seeks EC reply on raising no. of voters at booth

THE Supreme Court on Monday sought the Election Commission's response on a PIL challenging its decision to increase the maximum number of voters from 1,200 to 1,500 at every polling station, saying it is \"concerned\".

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IMD predicts warmer winter and less number of cold wave days this season
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IMD predicts warmer winter and less number of cold wave days this season

THE India Meteorological Department on Monday forecast a warmer winter and fewer cold wave days during this season that spans from December to February.

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Deal for 26 Rafale-M jets, 3 Scorpene submarines next month: Navy Chief

THE Indian Navy's procurement of 26 Rafale-M fighter jets for its indigenous aircraft carrier and the construction of three additional Scorpene-class submarines are set to be finalized next month, with both deals nearing conclusion, Navy Chief Admiral Dinesh Tripathi said on Monday.

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'Made-in-India paracetamol to hit market next year'
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Another washout of Parliament session
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Another washout of Parliament session

Houses adjourned for 5th straight day as Oppn continues to demand discussion on Adani, Sambhal and Manipur

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DURING India's highest-growth years of 2003-08, I held the view that India was unstoppable.

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