"The first time I leaked while belly laughing, I was flabbergasted. I thought it was a weird onetime moment-until it happened a few weeks later when I coughed. I was embarrassed that this was happening, and also sad to be experiencing what I assumed was a normal part of aging, so I didn't dare mention a word to anyone, even my doctor.
"Living with little leaks meant I had to be careful if I laughed too hard, coughed or sneezed, so whenever I found myself in those instances, I squeezed my legs together while trying to also clench my abdominal muscles-almost like doing a Kegel exercise-hoping to prevent a bigger leak. Sometimes that worked, and other times it wouldn't.
Suffering in silence
"I became so self-conscious about my bladder leakage that I secretly bought adult undergarments. Ashamed, I tried to hide what felt like diapers from my family. I found myself trying hard to never laugh out loud-especially when I was in public.
"This all left me feeling alone and isolated. I was too embarrassed to ask family or friends if they ever experienced little leaks. I didn't talk to my physician because I assumed she was going to tell me what I already knew: to wear adult underwear or try medications, which I wasn't interested in pursuing.
"As a mom of three boys, I worried about having an accident and having to explain. I didn't want my kids to worry that their mother was falling apart or ill.
هذه القصة مأخوذة من طبعة September 09, 2024 من First for Women.
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هذه القصة مأخوذة من طبعة September 09, 2024 من First for Women.
ابدأ النسخة التجريبية المجانية من Magzter GOLD لمدة 7 أيام للوصول إلى آلاف القصص المتميزة المنسقة وأكثر من 9,000 مجلة وصحيفة.
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