THE UNSPOKEN SISTER CODE

A sister is both your mirror and your opposite.

- Unkalika Priyadarshini

Sisters before Misters - the line truly justifies what exactly a sister means in a girl's life. Girls do have bae (before anyone else) the one who is the other pair of the shoe if it is not there then the pair is incomplete. The person who stands for us, never judges the decision we took and above all never puts a why? on any sentence or work we do.

The world always normalises boys' friendships, gives a 'thumbs up' to whatever guys do with their gang. But when the same situation comes for the opposite gender, it raises eyebrows and always puts a question mark why they wanted it to happen? 

We are actually overrating bro code. But to be honest, girls do have sister-code, which we actually never want to bring in front to everyone. Let's say we always have a new bahana (excuse) to not attend parties or functions, the not so interesting look that we exchange with each other when it's a boring get-together, which everyone can't understand other than the soul-sister, the that guy seems interesting stare we share when surrounded by many people.

And the king of all excuses when we are not in a mood for anything to do, 'I am on my periods', simply disappears when we see our sister. A girl can survive without a guy but honestly, we cannot survive without our sister.

Like to whom we can share our new found love interest, and also whom to share the guy we thought charming and handsome turnout to be a walking headache. As a woman we always need a perfect partner, not to get married but to bitch about everyone. Like a guy will never be interested in listening how horrible a person is dressed up as they themselves are pathetically dressed up.

It's not always about girls only need someone to be father of their child and a perfect life partner but they need a sister to whom they can say what's happening in her life without using any filter as she won't judge. If, at all, she judges, she will judge better than the mister.