Make The Leap – You Really Can Do It!
Drum English|23 January 2020
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Sirin Kale
Make The Leap – You Really Can Do It!

When I was 26 I broke up with a longterm partner, got an ill-advised facial piercing and changed careers – all in the space of a month. What I learnt during those four weeks is that life is like a cake: you can’t unbake it if you don’t like the flavour. Sometimes you need to chuck the entire thing in the bin and start again from scratch. It’s harder that way, but who wants to spend the rest of their life eating cupcakes when really they wanted lamingtons?

Change is hard. Change is scary. Change is a tedious administrative nightmare. Unfortunately, change is also critical to our continued happiness as humans. Even if we can’t bring ourselves to embrace change, we shouldn’t avoid it at all costs.

But what about life-altering changes? How do you make the leap into unknown waters – whether it’s swopping jobs, moving to the other side of the world or even leaving your marriage?

We spoke to experts and people who’ve made major life changes to get the lowdown.

LISTEN TO YOUR GUT

Claudia Garland, a 30-year-old teacher, was wedding-dress shopping with her mother at the beginning of last year when she broke down.

“My mom looked at me in the shop and said, ‘You seem so unhappy’.”

Claudia admitted she’d been having doubts about the wedding.

“I’d been having panic attacks, and at that moment I decided it was best not to go ahead with it,” she recalls.

She went home that evening and told her fiancé the wedding was off.

This story is from the 23 January 2020 edition of Drum English.

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