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I’m 24 and my boyfriend and I recently had sex for the first time. I thought it was good, but my boyfriend commented that I wasn’t into it and wasn’t very energetic. I’m not sure what exactly I did wrong. Is there something I should be more aware of during sex?

Pooja Sharma, Delhi

Dear Pooja, to my mind it matters most that you felt your first sexual encounter was good. However, I can understand your concern about your boyfriend’s feelings. Please understand that in public, just like some of us are all extrovert and noisy, others are quieter and more restrained. The same applies in bed. It’s just the kind of person we are.