Your Desire Style is the Key to Hotter Foreplay

To hotter sex in general, really

- Veronica Lopez

What if we told you there is a way to hack your sex drive so that you can get horny—and stay that way—whenever you want? Yes, even these days, when just about everything feels like a libido killer (the looming maybe-recession, never-ending work stress...you get the gist), and when getting your brain to chill out, and focus on what feels good can be a particularly difficult task. The trick lies in identifying your desire style, aka your love language’s (much) sexier counterpart.

According to US-based sex expert Emily Morse, author of Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ, and Own Your Pleasure, almost every turn-on can be categorised into one of five styles: conversation, touch, visuals, play, and physical adventure. Think of each as a set of things you can do—alone or with a partner—so that when it’s time to get it on, you have *been* ready.