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It’s inescapable. It seems that every mindset guru, leadership coach or productivity influencer is obsessed with chasing absolute focus. Goals? They must be clearer than Ambani diamonds. Success? If you can’t picture it in HD, you’ll never make it. Action plans? Don’t worry. Every hour of every day has been accounted for and optimised. No wonder somany young people are overwhelmed before they even begin adult life.
Life’s too complicated to control. And yet, uncertainty is taboo. It’s worrying great minds too. “A solid amount of ‘dallying in the wilderness of being unsure’ is a positive thing,” says Amercian journalist Maggie Jackson. Her National Book Award-nominated book, Uncertain: The Wisdom and Wonder of Being Unsure, examines why the term has long been seen as a shameful flaw, and how the long-neglected topic is now exciting researchers.
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No. Wait. She did what?
These mean girls are self-centred, bratty, and can make your life hell. But they stole the show. Read on, loser. And tell us how it wasssss
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Are you seeing spots too?
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Leave us to our own devices
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Siam Siam, but different
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The high score in your ear
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Turned down, turned sour
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Stretch out, soften up
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Show them your best side
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A wok to remember
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