I DID cheat on Vanessa ...again and again

Sex with one woman three times in Ibiza. Raunchy messages with an Instagram fan. Boozy flirting at Butlin's in Skegness

- JANINE YAQOOB

VANESSA Feltz's ex today reveals the secret affair, sex texts and flirting that killed their "perfect romance".

Singer Ben Ofoedu, 50, tells for the first time how he had sex three times with a woman he met in Ibiza.

TV's Vanessa, 60, forgave him. But Ben messaged a fan on Instagram and flirted with a woman at a Butlin's gig.

He says: "Vanessa is the love of my life. I'm so sorry."  

TELLY star Vanessa Feltz's ex today admits his cheating for the first time and says: "I was wrong ...l betrayed the love of my life." Singer Ben Ofoedu tells the Sunday Mirror how fiancée Vanessa forgave him after he had sex three times with an older woman.

Revealing the affair on the Spanish island of Ibiza, he says it was "just sex - and a chore".

But his patched-up, 16-year relationship with Vanessa was finally doomed when, the Mirror can reveal, he later sex-texted one woman and flirted with another.

Vanessa, 61 next week, kicked Ben out of their North London home and is now blocking his calls.

Ben, 50, says: "I've broken her trust.

She gave me another chance. I've gone and destroyed that."

Spelling out his cheating, Ben says: 

WOMAN No1 was a fan he met in 2015 while gigging on Ibiza with his band Phats and Small.

WOMAN No2 was an Instagram follower he grew close to in 2022. She sent him nude photos.

WOMAN No3 told Vanessa he flirted inappropriately at a Butlin's gig in Skegness, Lincs, last December.

Admitting his shame, Ben says: "So many people have been hurt, not just Vanessa. I was so close to her grandchildren, her daughters, their husbands. We're a close-knit family.

SORRY "My family have been appalled by it as well. There's been a lot of pain.