It's Outlook

Not looks that matters.

- I.M. Soni

Having an aura personality has to do with your attitude towards others, yourself, and life in general, as it does with your looks. But the former is more important.

Appeal is attraction or halo, it is the essence of your feminity, which is a combination of many factors.

Some less unattractive women attract men. You think that they are naturally charming. Fact, however, is that a women does not have to be Venus. In some cases, a woman’s appeal may have nothing to do with how she looks but it has everything to do with her outlook on life, and men in particular. The big ad-world myth is that only a model or an actress is sexy. A housewife is out of bounds to be sexy or seductive. The myth needs to be consigned to the dustbin.

A housewife does not need certificates from a panel of fashion faddists to be alluring. If her husband finds her sexy, she can boo the faddist.

You are more likely to be alluring by being friendly and warm. By being friendly, you lessen the fear of rejection by man. Often a shy man responds to you if you are warm and smiling. Men relate friendliness to attraction.