What Really Gets His Attention?

To get your man’s attention back, you have to work in an affirmative manner so that he comes on the same page as you. Women, you need to pull your socks up and try some of these ways to get your man’s attention back into the relationship

- Vibha Singh

Have you noticed that your husband or boyfriend is paying less and less time with you and more time with work or his hobbies? It’s perfectly fine to feel a little insecure when he starts focusing on other things, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Usually, when a guy starts switching his attention away from the relationship to things like work or hobbies it is because he feels secure in his relationship. Most guys have the “if it’s not broken, then don’t fix it” attitude.

Right now, he just feels that there is no issue that the relationship needs all of his attention. What you want to do is have a talk about ways that you can spend more time together or you can simply seek more of his attention out with subtle hints. The only thing is that you don’t want to sound demanding or clingy. First, before you set out in an effort to make your man want you more, you’re going to have to keep your emotions in check. Consider this: If it seems like your boyfriend isn’t wanting you as much as you would like, it can really wreak havoc on your emotions.

Sometimes women go through a downward emotional spiral wondering why they aren’t good enough and they begin drowning in feelings of inadequacy. The feelings of not being enough are almost poisonous, leading to feelings of self-loathing and a loss of self-esteem.

When it comes to talking to your man, you will want to avoid sounding demanding. If you push him and there is nothing wrong, to him, in the relationship, he will start to get defensive. Don’t sound like you don’t trust him, or that you don’t appreciate him. If it is work that is getting in the way of you two men take their jobs very seriously. In fact, a job, to a man, defines who he is.