The Girl Next Door

Are you sure? Because I’ve had sex in a pool.

She wants to have pool sex. How do we make sure this goes well? – Aiden, Umhlanga

Fun for the novelty. Not super-effective for the sex. Pool water is not an ideal lubricant, and thinking about chlorine in all your sensitive parts is somewhat distracting. If she’s into it, by all means go for it, but don’t be afraid to take things into the shallow end. Sometimes the outdoor element is all you need to satisfy any exhibitionist affinities. Personally, however, I’d go by this mantra: Sex next to the pool? Cool. Sex underwater? Don’t bother.

My wife’s micromanaging our pre-baby prep, including obsessing over the name. How much of a say do I really have? – Jack, Welkom