When writer Sara Faye Green moved sex to the top of her to-do list, life got a whole lot more interesting
It’s date night, and the mood is right for overdue intimacy. You book that cosy restaurant, pull out your silkiest undies, get all dressed up. But after three courses and a bottle of wine (so filling!), you’re home scrolling through Instagram (so distracting!) and feeling your eyelids close after that epic work week (so exhausting!). How are you supposed to rip each other’s clothes off when you can barely floss before falling into bed?
My husband, Jesse, and I know this scenario all too well. After a decade together, sex is still satisfying. But we’ve both taken on bigger roles at work, and the time between our romantic connections has stretched.
The rest of the country are getting it on less than they’d like to as well, with only 42 per cent of Victorians having sex once a week and 89.7 per cent of NSWers giving their sex lives the thumbs down, according to the Durex Great Aussie Sex Survey.
But making time to be intimate on the reg “has a cumulative effect in a relationship”, says sex researcher Kristen Mark. “Sex leads to more sex. It may not sound sexy, but pre-planning is key.” So I devised an experiment: for two weeks, I decided to prioritise sex the way I usually prioritise everything and everyone else. And let’s just say the results surprised me.
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