During my four years living in Singapore, I have met and befriended fantastic women of different ages and from different backgrounds and ethnicities – some with children, some without.
So, when I fell pregnant, I instinctually turned to them to hear their wisdom regarding all things baby. But I got … nothing. A big omerta-style silence.
Here are just a few of the things I wish they might have broken that silence about.
1 The giving birth
To this day I could not tell you about the birth experience since I ended up having a C-section. But after so many failed attempts to gather information, I realised that the reason why my friends would rather disclose the location of the Holy Grail than talk about birth is because of how painful it is. And, since most women want more than one child, I guess this is where the ancient notion of “selective memory” comes in handy.
2 The One-Flew-Over-the-Cuckoo’s-Nest hormones
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