I'm back on the apps — it's a minefield out there
Evening Standard|November 22, 2021
AFTER a full year off dating, I’ve been back on the apps for a month and despite the horrors covered in my piece on catfishers and so-so sex two weeks ago (I got some angry messages from men and many “oh my god, I know” comments from women) — I appear to be on a lucky streak, mostly.
​​​​​​​Lucy Holden
I'm back on the apps — it's a minefield out there

Of the four guys I’ve met, I’ve friend zoned The Teacher and asked Drinks App guy from Feeld, who I’d had a quickly-suggestive lunch with, never to text me again (whispering into someone’s ear on night one that you “never want to sleep with anyone else again” is a serious red flag). So that’s left two lovely, but very different men.

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