The Rise Of The Mid-Life Binge Drinkers
WOMAN'S OWN|October 28, 2019
NHS figures suggest baby boomers are set to overtake young people as problem drinkers. Here, Clare Pooley explains how she got sober
Clare Pooley
The Rise Of The Mid-Life Binge Drinkers

If you picture someone with a binge-drinking problem, they would probably be a young person falling out of a nightclub and vomiting into a gutter. It’s unlikely that you’d imagine someone like me– a 50-year-old, Cambridge-educated, middle-aged mum-of-three. Yet, new NHS figures show that we over-50s are overtaking youngsters as the nation’s problem drinkers.

This doesn’t surprise me, because just a few years ago I was drinking around 70 units of alcohol a week, which even I recognised was way more than the government recommended limit of 14. But not even my husband – who thought I should cut back but didn’t think I needed to quit – or my closest friends realised that my drinking had become an issue. Nobody staged an intervention.

Six years earlier, when my youngest child was born, I had given up a high-powered job in advertising. I’d imagined spending a few years being the perfect stay-at-home mum, baking and making models out of yogurt pots.

Daily drinking

But, as any full-time mum knows, it’s not a walk in the park. Well actually, it’s endless walks in the park, pushing swings and negotiating your way around toddler meltdowns. At the end of a busy day, I’d kick back with a large glass of Chablis and have some ‘me-time’.

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