Being narcissistic
Stalkers once rejected by the victim are unable to cope with what they have gone through. They cannot perceive the feelings of guilt, shame, rejection and embarrassment in a healthy manner. Stalkers compare victims to the same superior level as themselves and they feel if I have suffered so much the victim must suffer to the same level. The thoughts that run through their mind are, “If I can’t have you no one can’’ or “if you are not suitable for me then no other person is’’ or “nobody can care for you as much as I do.’’
Having fantasies about the victim
Once the perpetrator sets an eye on the victim, they are unable to differentiate between what is real and what is not. They are determined that the victim belongs to them even when there might not be a perfect relationship. They are extremely convinced that the victim is theirs to an extent that they picture a life with the victim in their imagination.
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