Most often parents are seen that they go online and read up a lot about parenting and the qualities of a good parent, and what they can do for their kids and how they can give a better life to the children. However, what the parents often do as a mistake is that they only read up about what they should say, and not read anything about what they should not say to their kids.
Some of the following given statements are often said by parents to their children, which are to be avoided by the parents. And these statements have a major impact on the minds of the children.
I wish you were never born
Sometimes, some things parents say in a lot of anger and do not realise the consequence of the statement that they made. When parents say that they regret the birth of their child, this makes the child feel as a burden for the parents. They feel unwanted. Sometimes the consequence of this simply made statement is so severe that the children assumes it to be a truth and makes assumptions based on this statement. For a child who is not given a particular toy or any wish of the child is being rejected, he or she starts assuming that it is because that the parents didn’t want him or her to be born, they are not fulfilling his or her wish.
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