FORGET THE 'OPPOSITES ATTRACT' CLICHÉ AND FIND SOMEONE LIKE YOU!
Femina|August 2024
After all, Sharon D’Silva asks, isn’t the ultimate goal to find someone who truly gets’ you?
FORGET THE 'OPPOSITES ATTRACT' CLICHÉ AND FIND SOMEONE LIKE YOU!

We live in a world where the ‘opposites attract’ mantra has long dominated our understanding of love. Take a quick look at pop culture; you’re going to be nodding in agreement. It’s like a rom-com cliché come to life: the mysterious loner drawing the attention of the social butterfly; the bad boy that mothers are always warning you about catching feelings for the overachiever aiming for Harvard; or the shy, quiet bookworm doodling hearts as she tutors the troublemaker who’s always in detention.

But here’s a radical thought: why not flip the script and find someone just like you? Yes, you read that right! Before you dismiss the idea entirely, let me explain: Finding someone like you doesn’t mean looking for your clone or carbon copy. It’s about seeking someone who looks at life the way you do.

Sure, opposites attract – there’s no doubt about it – but here’s the catch: that initial attraction, while thrilling, often comes with a Pandora’s box of differences that, with time, can throw you for a loop and leave you feeling more queasy than exhilarated. Imagine this: you’re a homebody who loves nothing more than curling up with a good book and a cup of tea, while your partner is always seeking the next big adventure.

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