Before going through menopause, was it something you had ever thought about?
No! I didn’t know much. I faintly recall my mom saying that she went into early menopause and had her last period at 45— but there was little conversation around it. I didn’t know you could experience anywhere from three to 10 years of symptoms and that before you were officially in menopause there was called perimenopause. So when I started going through it, I was shocked
When did you start thinking about menopause?
In my late 30s. I met my partner, and we both agreed we wanted to start a family. I wasn’t getting pregnant. I had a friend who was in her 50s, and she suggested I get a blood panel done. They measured my hormones and found that my folliclestimulating hormone was quite elevated— they want it to be under 10, and I was in the 20s. I was told it indicated that I may be close to menopause. Panic set in. I did finally get pregnant and then had a second baby shortly after, at the age of 40. Right after that, the night sweats increased and I was pretty much in perimenopause.
How did you feel about that?
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