A Village Is the People, Not the Place
Raising a child is a team effort. Mother, father, grandfather, grandmother, uncles, aunts, teachers, and caregivers all play an essential role in a child's life. And when the village comes together, the child thrives.
The village is not the place, it's the people.
A few generations ago, whether one was rich or poor, educated or illiterate, everyone had a village to count on. But not anymore. Today, most of us live far away from our parents and grandparents. Even if we wish to live close by, it's not easy. Our homes are smaller, lifestyles are different and our jobs can take us from one city to another. Moreover, the Covid-19 pandemic has upended our travelling habits. So, in these changing times, how do we recreate the togetherness of the village?
By "togetherness," I mean the togetherness of hearts. It's the kindred feeling of closeness we experience with loved ones. Togetherness is the soul of this book and it's expressed in the idea that humanity thrives when we nurture the bonds that connect us. And this nurturing begins in the family and continues in the village.
Where there is heart, there is love; and love strengthens togetherness.
The African proverb, "It takes a village to raise a child," conveys the idea of togetherness. Throughout this book, I share ideas and practices to rekindle that sense of connection, togetherness, of community in the modern setting. So whether you're an urban couple with bouncy toddlers, an iPad-ninja grandfather, or a diligent caregiver, this book helps you bring your heart into your relationships. And where there is heart, there is love; and love strengthens togetherness. I was blessed to experience such love in the village that raised me.
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