TO-DO OR NOT TO DO?

Agreeing to marry someone is indeed a salient decision in your life, and one must own it with pride. It calls for a lifelong commitment and immense affection for the other person. But there is always an unexplored side to everyone, and to tie the knot, you should be aware of it. WA delves into some questions you must consider before you say 'I DO'.

Transparency in a relationship is what functions as the sailor of the ship. Highs and lows across the road are inevitable. The joy ride is magical, but only when you have considered everything before setting the course for the ship to sail. Questions provide thought and sought solutions to many storms that may be tiding in your head.

HAVE WE MADE PEACE WITH WHAT'S GONE?

You are each other's present, but there could be a past too. Are you aware of everything they have been through? If yes, are you okay with it? If not, does ignorance bother you or bring you no goosebumps? Discussing previous lives is as important as discussing the future. You don't want to lay a foundation that lacks trust, especially if there are missing puzzle pieces. Talk about the issues or events they have been through that have shaped them into their 'today' version. It also includes talking about prior relationships. A bond where things are crystal clear tends to shine brighter in the long run.

HOW DO WE SEE OUR TO-BE-IN-LAWS?

It is not just the two of you engaging in holy matrimony but also your families. Respect and love for and from them are equally essential. A partner who isn't comfortable around your folks may struggle to reach out to them in your voluntary absence or if under the same roof. And it is not just about being the other's family but serving as an additional support system. Spend time with your beau's family to absorb their roots and values.

ARE WE HAVING CHILDREN?