It takes a village HEATHER'S MOTHERHOOD SECRETS
New Zealand Woman's Weekly|May 07, 2024
She may have lost herself a little, but the radio star's embracing life with Iggy
Nicky Pellegrino
It takes a village HEATHER'S MOTHERHOOD SECRETS

Broadcaster Heather du Plessis-Allan has learned from experience that her mother Elizabeth is often right. And over the past couple of years, since becoming a parent herself, Heather has also come to realise what an amazing role model she has been.

“I think I may be turning into her actually,” laughs Heather. “And she’s turning into my grandmother, so I can see where I’m heading.”

During her career as a broadcaster, Heather has become known for being strong and fearless. But motherhood is changing her and in ways she hadn’t expected. On air every weekday hosting Newstalk ZB’s Drive show, she’s still businesslike and assertive. In the privacy of her Auckland home, however, a different Heather emerges. One who isn’t afraid to admit that coping with a busy job and a lively toddler has been far more challenging than she ever imagined.

“As an idealistic young woman, I thought that a baby wouldn’t really interrupt my career and maybe I wasn’t as kind as I should have been about women who choose to stay at home,” admits Heather, 39. “Now I fully understand why some women stay home for years on end when they have kids. Because it’s tough to juggle a job and a baby.

“I don’t understand how many mums do it… I don’t always understand how I do it! It’s harder than we let on, and probably we need to be more honest with other women and admit that it can grind you down.”

Son Iggy has turned two and is a bright, happy boy who brings Heather and her husband, Barry Soper, so much joy. Much as they adore him, she’s grateful to have plenty of support and says family has become increasingly important.

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