Forty-year-old Gaia Chinniah is a full-time medium and energy healer. She shares the regrets she sees most often in both this lifetime and past lifetimes following years of working as a spiritual practitioner…
RELATIONSHIPS
Most people are looking for a relationship and very few aren’t. If I hear this or see this in someone’s soul blueprint, it’s not because they do not want to be loved; it’s because they’re afraid of getting hurt. Being in a relationship is always a risk, but it’s a risk which is usually worth taking. The biggest regret that I have seen from those in relationships is not saying what you truly feel or want during the course of the relationship. Sure, there is a time and place to say something. However, almost everyone I see has a fear of being abandoned and therefore refrains from expressing themselves or
has a fear of their love not being reciprocated. If you love someone, say it! If you want or need something in a relationship, say it! When timing is involved, it’s about saying and doing things without the expectation that it’s going to be returned to you in the same way. The regret is not saying what you truly feel and therefore not letting the other person have an opportunity to meet you where you need.
WHEN TO SAY SOMETHING
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