BEN'S GETTING FROG-MAR DOWN THE AISLE

J.Lo wants to wed NOW and won’t let him drag his feet

HENPECKED former boozer Ben Affleck is moaning he’s being railroaded into an early knot-tie with demanding fiancée Jennifer Lopez, spies tattle.

His high-maintenance, 52-year-old squeeze is forging ahead with plans to wed sooner rather than later, and pressuring her beefcake beau, 49, to get into tip-top shape for the special day — with no excuses!

“J.Lo still wants the big, flashy ceremony down the line, but before that she wants a small one to get the formalities out of the way,” dishes an insider.

“And she’s told Ben there’s no weaseling out of it.”