Funerals are awful. Whether you were close to the dearly departed or just a respectful acquaintance it is a tough day. Often the ceremony is still caught up in the rather dreary Victorian traditions of mourning: sombre dark suits, mournful hymns and a very standard service.
Ideas of what makes a ‘good funeral’ whilst still being respectful of traditions and grief are changing, though. Colourful clothing rather than morbid black is beginning to be a new tradition and with less people choosing a religious service there is almost a trend for trying something different and more personal when it comes to your final big show.
Saving the planet, being green or eco-friendly, however, might not be high on your list of final requests…yet!
But after chatting with Rupert Callender, it became clear to me, why do it any other way? It’s time to break the taboo, talk about death and what you want to happen afterwards and, for those left behind, provide a chance to grieve in a way that is more natural and personal to them.
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