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We have been married for more than a decade and have two kids. But the issue is that my wife has lost interest in sex ever since the birth of the second child while I am still interested in sexual intercourse. We have not had sex in the last six to nine months and that makes me make a relationship with other women, though I have not until now. Now both of us doubt one another about having an affair with someone else. How should I get out of this problem and rekindle spark?

It seems like both of you have let infidelity come into your married life. The best way to clear things out is stopping to assume and starting to have a conversation with your partner to see if she’s looking for something else. Try to find out the reason why she does not wants to have sex and listen patiently to her. If there’s anything related to hormonal changes that are causing mood swings then take her to a gynaecologist to seek a solution to medical problems. This might even require some tests to get done if there emerges any problem. Make sure you stay with her in case of any complications as hormonal changes affect sexual relationships. On an emotional level, try to understand her viewpoint and comfort her so she can easily discuss married life problems with you.