Why Your Friends Ignored Your WatsApp?

No one wants to be a lousy friend. Purpose coach and MBTI trainer Dazzling Chong (www.BreakingTheCodeOf You.com) tells us how to be the Ron to your Harry, or the Janice to your Cady, depending on your personality.

- Sophie Hong

ENFJ

PROS

Ever the mother hen, you’re always looking out for your friends. And because you’re so sensitive to other people’s emotions and needs, you’d always reach out even before your friends approach you.

CONS 

You’re always trying to better yourself, which is not a bad thing. But your friends find you annoying when you try to get them to improve themselves too, and some of them may not be ready for those truth bombs you’re about to drop.

HOW TO MAKE UP FOR IT: “The ENFJ’s theme song is ‘Can You Feel The Love Tonight’,” quips Dazzling. It’s natural for you to want to help someone else out, even if they didn’t ask for it, but it would be good to hold back some of the feels. “Rest assured that your friends will still love you even if you pull back a little bit.”

INTP

PROS

You never say “no” to your friends, and that has resulted in some of the most epic experiences of their lives.

CONS 

“You used to call me on your cell phone, late night when you need my love,” sings Drake on “Hotline Bling”, and your friends probably feel the same way too, because you’re never the one to initiate a meet up unless you really, really have a reason to.

HOW TO MAKE UP FOR IT: Don’t treat your friends like a booty call! Okay, we get that you’re an introvert, but that doesn’t give you the license to be an a-hole. It may not be your style to ask people to hang out, but it won’t hurt to drop your friend a text every now and then, even if it’s just a photo of a really, really, fat cat.

ENTP

PROS