Your Gray- Hair Game Plan

Whether you’re just spotting your first silver or salt-and-pepper has become your look, we’ll help you do gray your way—and love it.

- Krista Bennett DeMaio

REMEMBER THE DAY you spotted your first gray hair— and the flood of emotions that followed? First, denial. Maybe it’s a blonde highlight—even though I’m not blonde.... Then anger: What the—?! I’m too young for this. Finally, acceptance. Either These streaks add character; I like ’em or Meet me in the haircolor aisle! Here’s the silver lining: We’ve got pro-approved plans, based on questions submitted by O readers, to keep you looking your best whether your gray is do or dye.

Q: I’VE JUST STARTED SEEING GRAYS BUT DON’T WANT TO BEGIN COLORING MY HAIR YET. HOW CAN I MAKE SALT-AND-PEPPER WORK?

—CAMILLE CHATTERJEE, 43, BALTIMORE

A: This look is best on brown or black hair, says Jet Rhys, a celebrity colorist and salon co-owner. That’s because it all comes down to the contrast of dark and light.