All you know about money is that there’s just never enough, right? Let’s change that, starting right now. Here’s our expert’s 10-point plan.
1. Take responsibility!
It’s been just 33 years since marital power was abolished in SA. Before 1984, if a couple were married in community of property, the husband had legal control of both his own property and his wife’s! She couldn’t enter into a contract (not even to open a bank account), write a will or sell an asset without his permission. So it’s no surprise that many older women haven’t taken responsibility for their finances.
Though most women find themselves solely responsible for their finances at some point in their lives, many of us still allow our husbands or partners to manage (or mismanage) our finances and retirement planning – sometimes with disastrous consequences.
The 2017 Wage Indicator shows that the average gross monthly wage for SA men is R18 824, and for women, R13 229 – a pay gap of about 30%. This also means our pension fund contributions are lower and our bonuses are proportionately smaller, as are the levels of group life, disability and income protection cover. We also tend to live longer than men, and our careers are often interrupted during our childbearing years. Research shows women typically have one-third less set aside for retirement than men.
So take full responsibility for your journey to financial empowerment, and change your spending habits. We need to stop the ‘retail therapy’ thinking, and start talking about wealth building as a true form of liberation. No number of stilettos will make us financially empowered. Most crucially, we need to teach our daughters that too.
2. Educate yourself
There are plenty of great books and blogs on personal finances. Your knowledge will help you make better decisions. And if you partner with an independent financial planner, you will make decisions from a position of strength.
3. The B word
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