![10 things I know about MIDLIFE](https://cdn.magzter.com/1389340925/1643893273/articles/6214eea19a96a/10-things-I-know-aboutMIDLIFE.jpg)
Simple maths proves it. The amount of alcohol required to obliterate the size and intractability of the problems that face us in midlife is simply too great to be processed by our slowed metabolisms in under three days. By which time, all the large, intractable problems left unmanaged for 72 hours have increased at a geometric rate, which means the amount of alcohol required... well. You get the idea, I'm sure.
2 YOU CAN SWITCH TO PILLS
But only if you're lucky. Modern GPs are very down on patients self-medicating their way to numbness. Even if you tell them it's that or alcoholism. I'm told things were simpler in the old days, when doctors actively encouraged women to become zombie-like dutiful wives and mothers by handing out sedatives like Smarties. But now it's all, 'Deal with your problems', 'Attack root causes', 'Go to therapy'. As if anyone has time, let alone inclination.
3 DEALING WITH YOUR PROBLEMS, ATTACKING ROOT CAUSES, AND GOING TO THERAPY DO ALL WORK
I have friends who have successfully done at least one of each of these things and they are very happy. They are all divorced too. I don't know if this is statistically significant and, if so, whether as cause or effect, but I cannot feel that it is unrelated.
この記事は Woman & Home の March 2022 版に掲載されています。
7 日間の Magzter GOLD 無料トライアルを開始して、何千もの厳選されたプレミアム ストーリー、9,000 以上の雑誌や新聞にアクセスしてください。
すでに購読者です ? サインイン
この記事は Woman & Home の March 2022 版に掲載されています。
7 日間の Magzter GOLD 無料トライアルを開始して、何千もの厳選されたプレミアム ストーリー、9,000 以上の雑誌や新聞にアクセスしてください。
すでに購読者です? サインイン
![Sporting SENSATIONS](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/PcJ_UoEO41717160769478/SPORTING-SENSATIONS.jpg)
Sporting SENSATIONS
Olympian Tessa Sanderson CBE reflects on winning gold and shines a spotlight on some of Team GB's outstanding women
![The ROYAL REPORT](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/LcaqHpwea1717160544018/THE-ROYAL-REPORT.jpg)
The ROYAL REPORT
One of the many privileges of working alongside the royal family is to see them up close and unvarnished.
![A DAY IN THE LIFE OF Dame Denise Lewis](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/9JSRh2o0K1717160395398/A-DAY-IN-THE-LIFE-OF-DAME-DENISE-LEWIS.jpg)
A DAY IN THE LIFE OF Dame Denise Lewis
The Olympian and BBC pundit, 51, lives in Buckinghamshire with her husband Steve. She has four children.
![BRIGHT & breezy](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/uhhlK0Kjc1717159937167/BRIGHT-BREEZY.jpg)
BRIGHT & breezy
Diana and Andy Irving set out to recreate American East Coast living at their Merseyside home, with spectacular results
![Why a slim body MIGHT NOT BE A HEALTHY ONE](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/vEB3iZiM01717159687300/WHY-A-SLIM-BODY-MIGHT-NOT-BE-A-HEALTHY-ONE.jpg)
Why a slim body MIGHT NOT BE A HEALTHY ONE
This month, our expert Annie Deadman reveals why eating well is essential, no matter what size your clothing labels say
![My mother's GIFTS](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/-X2qvso0D1717159292938/MY-MOTHERS-GIFTS.jpg)
My mother's GIFTS
When Genevieve Kingston's mother learnt she was dying, she found a poignant way to mark her children's milestones
![IT'S GOOD to talk](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/FilOLaikW1717158931730/ITS-GOOD-TO-TALK.jpg)
IT'S GOOD to talk
The last six months have seen unprecedented candour from the Royal Family. Emily Andrews asks, is this the end for 'never complain, never explain'?
![Sultry southern CHARM](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/Z20xRF-VU1717158443330/SULTRY-SOUTHERN-CHARM.jpg)
Sultry southern CHARM
Stretched along Italy's heel, Puglia offers a slice of the Italian good life, with peaceful hotels, indulgent meals and low-key glamour, says Lucy Thackray
![FRUITY PUDDINGS](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/_KycVRV4L1717157706387/FRUITY-PUDDINGS.jpg)
FRUITY PUDDINGS
Easy crowd-pleasing desserts that can be made ahead of time
![Are weddings OUT OF CONTROL?](https://reseuro.magzter.com/100x125/articles/5364/1715411/ADl0nj4QO1717154606137/ARE-WEDDINGS-OUT-OF-CONTROL.jpg)
Are weddings OUT OF CONTROL?
You can’t put a price on love, but marriages these days can be eye-wateringly costly, as Christabel Smith discovers