How to make the best of it.
Breaking up with someone is never easy and it becomes even worse when you are the one being dumped. While there are many lessons you can learn from a break-up, it is still a very lonely experience. When the relationship is officially over, you get into a web of what ifs and whys. But instead of thinking about all of this, why not try and think about the lessons you learnt from that relationship?
Every relationship, whether good or bad, always has a lesson behind it. It taught you what you want – and, more importantly, what you don’t want – in your next relationship.
Break-up is hard, but its lessons are enlightening. That is the beauty of life – you always find a truth in paradox.
Your happiness and validation comes from within: You don’t need a relationship to be happy. While you might feel overwhelmed with the pain of having broken up, you need to understand, there is much more to life than being in a relationship with someone, especially when that someone did not treat you right. Staying in a relationship at the cost of your self-respect is never the right decision to make.
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