So, how are you? So, when are you getting married? What did you have for lunch? How about this heat?
How about No?
Older folks have figured out how to use cellphones and the cloud. They've stopped with the Good Morning texts too. And yet, they haven't realised that small talk is agonisingly out of date. To them it's friendly chatter: How is your mother? To everyone else, it's intrusion. Mother is on Facebook and WhatsApp. You texted her, yesterday.
Small talk worked for the generation that wasn't as wired as we are now. Those skills came in handy on a long commute, to build a rapport with the grocer. Polite niceties matter less now, when everyone's on their phones, orders groceries online and has 15 tabs open in their mind at all times.
この記事は Brunch の October 19, 2024 版に掲載されています。
7 日間の Magzter GOLD 無料トライアルを開始して、何千もの厳選されたプレミアム ストーリー、9,000 以上の雑誌や新聞にアクセスしてください。
すでに購読者です ? サインイン
この記事は Brunch の October 19, 2024 版に掲載されています。
7 日間の Magzter GOLD 無料トライアルを開始して、何千もの厳選されたプレミアム ストーリー、9,000 以上の雑誌や新聞にアクセスしてください。
すでに購読者です? サインイン
A steely resolve
Ajmal Shifaz used junk metal objects and the imagination of children to bring a community closer. Alongside, he created art in motion
A guide to splitting Athens
In all my years of travelling, there is one country I had never been to: Greece. When I mentioned this to friends abroad, they were surprised. But no Indian I spoke to thought it was odd. Few Indians I know have been to Greece and most have no plans to visit. And those who have gone have focused on the islands: Santorini, Mykonos, Crete, Corfu etc.
Sorry to interrupt your cereal...
No one eats bacon, waffles and sausages every day. Naturally, hotel spreads get boring after a while. Bring on the idlis!
Lots to unpack here
Secret getaway? It's crowded by 10am. Hidden gem? Not so shiny IRL. Golden sands, azure sea? More edited than naturally exotic. As Insta shapes how we vacation, travel experts open up on what gets cropped out of the frame
A healthy dose of reality
Is cortisol giving you belly flab? Can magnesium pills help you sleep? Is alkaline water even a thing? Actual advice, from actual experts to counter internet wisdom
What's the deal with deals?
Coupons, codes, cashback, crash pricing, confusion. How to play (and not get played) when sale season comes around
Just skip to the good part
Health, family, heat, rain. Small talk is boring. Is it possibly outdated in today's tech-first world, too?
Solo, But Without The FOMO
Third-wheeling your besties all the time? Annoyed at couples that bail on you? Here's howto slay the single life while everyone partners up
What in the world?
Superhumans, starcrossed lovers, intergalactic hotels - these sci-fi novels make us want to switch universes
Firing on all cylinders
Ferrari's new 12Cilindri seems nimble and modern. It carries its legacy lightly. But there's true Italian passion under the hood