The marriage knot

Arranged marriage changed because of liberal thinking. Perhaps that progressiveness is changing again because of a more illiberal youth

Every new year brings fresh energy and an opportunity for introspection. I am writing this in Tadoba, a tiger reserve in Maharashtra. The drip of the morning dew, chirping of birds at first light, and bustling of leaves makes the jungle feel alive in spite of the silence. This tranquil ambience also makes reflection an easy task. In this serenity, I cannot help but recall 2022 with a smile. Nothing is perfect, but I am grateful for a lot that the last year threw my way. What surprised me most, however, is that many of the happiest moments in my personal life involved my loved ones getting engaged or married.

Women and age

I love the idea of love and appreciate wanting to build a life with someone. The commitment to love and the security of companionship are indispensable qualities synonymous to marriage. Furthermore, after witnessing so many friends happily settled with partners their parents recommended, my inhibitions regarding arranged marriages have assuaged as well.