The vows and commitments we make when we marry are intended to last a lifetime. In sickness and in health. For better or for worse. But should there be exceptions to these promises?
Billionaire Porsche executive Wolfgang Porsche, 79, came under fire recently when he announced his intention to divorce his wife Claudia, 74, who has a ‘dementia-like illness’. The news caused outrage, with many arguing Wolfgang’s actions were heartless. However, some expressed sympathy, arguing that life with a dementia sufferer is tougher than people realise.
Dementia is an umbrella term for about 200 neurological disorders, with symptoms including memory loss, confusion, difficulty speaking and changes in behaviour. Sadly, sufferers usually get worse over time, and the pain of watching a loved one suffer can be traumatic. With recent studies revealing that the number of people living with the disease is expected to hit the 139 million mark globally by 2050, is it really wrong to divorce someone who is seriously ill? One woman shares her experiences with us…
‘DESPITE IT ALL, HE WAS STILL THE MAN I MARRIED’
Elizabeth Fitzsimons, 68, lives in Rochdale and is a retired teacher.
Like most people reading the news about Wolfgang Porsche, I was shocked. How could someone possibly leave a partner who has failing health? But I can relate to his story – I know exactly how he feels, because I too have had a partner with dementia, and caring for him was anything but easy.
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