The Real Reason Young Women Are Going Off Sex
Closer|Issue 809

Closer investigates why half of British 20-30 something women are dissatisfied with their love lives

The Real Reason Young Women Are Going Off Sex

Millions of women across the UK breathed a collective sigh of relief last week, when research revealed that more than one in four of us reports being unhappy with our sex life. For many, the news brought the realisation that they’re not alone. Perhaps shockingly, the survey by Public Health England showed that women aged 25-34 are least satisfied in bed, with 49 per cent complaining of a lack of sexual enjoyment. But why are so many younger women feeling lukewarm under the covers?

PRESSURED 

Psychotherapist and relationship expert Diana Parkinson tells Closer, “So many women aren’t having good sex, and it’s partly because life today is so much more pressured. Thanks to mobile phones and the internet, we feel rushed or pressured for time 24/7. Young women are so busy getting an education, finding the perfect job and building their career or making their lives look good on social media, that they often don’t have time to think about sex – it simply becomes another box to be ticked.”

BLAME 

Diana adds, “Younger women especially are exposed to so many sexualised and filtered images of inflated lips, bottoms and silicone boobs on social media that it distorts their perception of what’s normal. It erodes their self-esteem, which makes it harder to feel relaxed in the bedroom. And as soon as your mind switches into wondering how you look naked, you’ve lost your connection with your partner. Plus work, laptops and TVs have also crept into the bedroom, with the result that there’s less tenderness and build-up before sex. We’re expected to suddenly switch into sex mode and perform, but we need time for making love.”

DISSATISFIED 

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