The Best- Kept Real- Girl Sex Secrets

We all know them—women who seem effortlessly sexy. But the truth is, those natural skills take cultivation of confidence and some practice. We consulted our little black book of irresistible chicks, and asked them to share their secrets.

- Rachel Hills

MAKE THE FIRST HOOKUP HOT

Sleeping with someone new is exhilarating on its own, but a little extra effort can catapult the night into legendary status. Next time you plan on inviting a fresh face between the sheets, use these three tricks to help raise your own pleasure odds.

BALANCE THE BOOZE

The first time you hop into bed together can be anxiety inducing, so sometimes it’s nice to have a drink. But after three bevs, I don’t know about you, but it feels like my vagina literally turns off and it’s much more difficult to feel satisfied. Being cautious about my drinking—or alternating cocktails with a glass of water—helps me focus clearly on having a great experience.

REVEL IN DRESSING UP

I feel the most confident when I spend time on myself to get ready for a date. That’s why I indulge in things like picking out my outfit, getting a manicure, or even just wearing matching underwear. This prehookup prep helps put me in a sexual mind-set, and it totally turns me on to be looking my best before I head out for the night.

TAKE A DIRECTOR’S ROLE

You can’t expect someone else to know what’s going to make you orgasm. Plus, men don’t always feel comfortable asking, ‘Does this feel good?’ So we have to take our sexual pleasure into our own hands. Tell your partner the moves you want (in a kind way, of course!), or place his hand exactly where it feels good.

—KARLEY SCIORTINO, CREATOR OF SLUTEVER.COM

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