Finding THE REAL YOU!
The Oprah Magazine|Volume 2. No 2 - 2022
Embracing the most you version of you isn't always easy. It takes wisdom, practice, and, above all, courage. In the pages that follow, meet women who dared to live a more genuine existence, and let them inspire you to do the same.
Finding THE REAL YOU!

Call Me What You Will

Ada Calhoun (rather, "Ada Calhoun") learns there's nothing like a false name to help you be your real self.

MY LEGAL SURNAME Schjeldahl, is complex and Norwegian. People see the jand abandon all hope of ever learning to pronounce or spell it. It's a name I use only for appointments, plane tickets, and my license. It's also the name of a prominent writer: my father.

Growing up, I wanted to be a writer myself, but I felt that job was taken. “You're not related to the art critic, are you?" people asked. If they gleaned that I had an interest in writing, they'd say, “Chip off the old block, eh?”

I hated that metaphor: He was a granite monolith, I a shard. He was leaving heavy footprints in the earth, while I tiptoed behind.

At 22, I was hired by The Austin Chronicle. (As uncomfortable as I felt pursuing a writing career, I couldn't get a job anywhere else.) As I filled out the new-hire paperwork, I discovered a little box that read dba, or "doing business as." That space vibrated with potential. Sitting at this newspaper's office, I was edging onto my father's turf. But when I saw that box, I thought, Who do I want to do business as? I wrote down Ada Calhoun.

Calhoun is my middle name. I was born on Saint Patrick's Day, so my parents named me after an Irish friend. ("How nice!" said Betsy Calhoun Baker. “But my name is Scottish.") With my new designation, I felt reborn. Ada Calhoun had no past, only a future. She was her own person. She was confident. She dressed sexier. She said her name and people didn't ask her to spell it 10 times. It wasn't just a pen name, though it did help me feel freer in writing articles for the Chronicle and, later, elsewhere. I used the name socially, too-most of my friends have no idea who Ada Schjeldahl is.

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