A week before Christmas last year, Kerry King helped three of her children build gingerbread houses in a prison visitation room in Oklahoma. King wanted to make the holiday special for the kids, even under the circumstances. But as the Black 35-year-old spread frosting on a graham cracker while dressed in her orange jumpsuit, her hair braided for the occasion, the mood still felt bittersweet. Since she was incarcerated six years earlier, her kids could only visit once a month, and soon it would be time to say goodbye.
"Do you love me?" Lilah, 10, the most outgoing of King's children, asked her mother as the visit was ending.
"Of course I do," King answered.
Lilah thought a moment, her brown eyes serious, and then said something that caught King off guard. "Do you still love him?" she asked. "Because if you still love him, I'll never forgive you."
King's heart dropped. Her ex-boyfriend had abused them both, years ago. He was the reason King was in prison now. But her daughter had never said anything like that to her before. And there wasn't enough time to have the long conversation they both craved.
Back in her cell, King agonized over whether a letter to Lilah would suffice. She had been mothering her children over letters and phone calls for too long. No matter what, King wanted to tell her daughter, I love you more than I could have loved anyone else, any man. And you should never, ever have to even consider whether I do.
"I am not guilty," King had said to me over the phone, months before the Christmas visit. "I just wanna go home. I wanna see my kids so bad. It kind of eats you up."
KING HAS SPENT countless nights tossing and turning in her cell, replaying the night that pulled her away from her family. (The following descriptions are confirmed in court records and testimony.)
Denne historien er fra July/August 2022-utgaven av Mother Jones.
Start din 7-dagers gratis prøveperiode på Magzter GOLD for å få tilgang til tusenvis av utvalgte premiumhistorier og 9000+ magasiner og aviser.
Allerede abonnent ? Logg på
Denne historien er fra July/August 2022-utgaven av Mother Jones.
Start din 7-dagers gratis prøveperiode på Magzter GOLD for å få tilgang til tusenvis av utvalgte premiumhistorier og 9000+ magasiner og aviser.
Allerede abonnent? Logg på
HOG WILD
The scandalous reason meat prices have skyrocketed
ALL WALKS
Limiting cars in cities can help disabled people, too.
REMIGRATION
How Trumpism is following the far right in Europe toward mass expulsion of immigrants
SETTLING THE SCORE
A pop psychology book is considered the definitive trauma text. But what if it's leading survivors down the wrong path?
Positive Spin
People with e-bikes drive less, pollute less, parkinglots-and that's only part of why cities and states are embracing them with gusto.
Cradle and All
The devastating cost of Utah's thriving adoption industry
THE BILLIONAIRE WHO NEARLY BROKE NEWPORT
TRUMP MEGADONOR STEPHEN SCHWARZMAN'S EXTREME MANSION MAKEOVER IS DRIVING HIS NEIGHBORS NUTS.
THE SECRET PLAN TO STRIKE DOWN US GUN LAWS
AND THE COP-TURNED-PASTOR AT THE CENTER OF IT ALL
GOOD NIGHT AND GOOD LUCK
Election Day inside a bustling broadcast newsroom that no longer exists
MASTER OF DISASTER
Trump won’t confront the climate crisis. He’ll feast off it.