Forcing Someone To Reveal Their Sexuality Is Never OK
The Independent|November 02, 2022
‘Heartstopper’ star Kit Connor left) is the latest celebrity to be backed into a corner
Emma Flint
Forcing Someone To Reveal Their Sexuality Is Never OK

Coming out isn't like in the movies. Often, it's a tentative transition, fraught with uncertainty as we hope for acceptance but prepare for rejection. Even those of us who have joyous coming-out experiences still recognise we're in the minority, not the majority. We know this, we've lived it, yet some of us relish forcing others to come out before they're ready.

Kit Connor, known for his role in teen drama Heartstopper, is the latest celebrity to be backed into a corner. Scrutiny has hounded his every move for months now, with so-called fans desperate to work out his sexuality as if they're cheap film noir detectives. It's been relentless. And now, after being unable to escape the constant gossiping, Connor has outed himself to quiet the insistent din.

On Halloween evening, a night meant for fictional ghouls, the actor returned to social media to relive a very real horror story.

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