How To Help Your Child Adjust To A New Baby!

Helping your child adjust to a new baby

Introducing a new addition to your family is a very exciting time. But it can also be quite nerve-wracking! As a mum, you’re probably plagued with many thoughts—“I can’t possibly love another as much as I love my first!”; “Will I be able to manage both children?”; “How can I help them avoid sibling rivalry?”

These are all very common worries, however, we can assure you that you will be able to love equally and manage both (or more!). Moreover, your child will adjust to the changes and the bond that siblings have is beyond worth it. However, there are a few things that you can do to cultivate siblings without rivalry and ensure that you make the transition as smooth as possible.

BEFORE BABY ARRIVES

Sing!

Before your new baby arrives, encourage your child to sing a song to your belly throughout your pregnancy. This will also come in handy once the baby arrives, you can give him the responsibility of soothing your new baby with this song.

Read

Help your child understand the changes that will be happening with your body as well as what they can expect when the baby arrives, by reading to them about it. Of course, spare the gory details! There are a range of books available on the topic of a new sibling and the growth of a baby. Books can allow children to feel like they can relate to the character which gives them a sense of connection. Videos about a baby growing in the womb can also be very helpful for children who are old enough to understand.

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