Hubby's having a fling and she's way older than I am

A few weeks ago, I found out my husband was having an affair. I'm 36, he's 42, and the woman he's been seeing is 56.

Dear Coleen

We've been married for nearly three years, although we'd known each other for years before that. I discovered the affair when I started tracking his phone and then I took a phone call from a hotel, saying his "wife" had left her glasses in the room. Obviously, not mine, but the other woman's.

He didn't admit the affair at first, but then it all came out. She's someone he met through his job and she's divorced with grown-up kids.

What broke my heart more than anything is that we both wanted kids, and we'd been trying for a baby and talking about it a lot, and now he's run off with someone who's too old to have them.