Life gets busy.
Work becomes demanding. People have other important stuff to take care of but that doesn't quite explain the phenomena.
Friendships fade away gradually, then suddenly.
Slowly people get comfortable with not making the effort to see their friends. There could be that occasional text but the willingness to do something together or partake of a shared adventure tends to reduce over time.
Evenings for most are dedicated to Netflix and weekends to the chores that have piled on from the week.
This isn't true for everybody; I am referring to a broader trend I have observed over the years.
'Netflix and chores' is the more predictable option with minimal chances of disappointment. A friend could cancel plans last minute but the Netflix show will be ready to delight you the moment you press the button.
We have been nudged into the humdrum of efficiency at work and predictability at leisure.
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'Hard Work Came First, Stardom Later'
Actor Adivi Sesh's career in Tollywood has included a variety of roles and genres. From playing Bhadra in Baahubali to Agent Gopi in Goodachari, Sesh has established himself as one of the most versatile performers in the industry, having played complicated characters with profound emotional arcs as well as action-packed thrillers.
Aspirations Unbound
At 69, Anupam Kher is far from done. Whether it is romance or fitness training, he is ready for it all
Recipes of the Heart and Home
After tasting success in London, celebrity chef Rohit Ghai is impressing the Omani palate with the subtlety of spice while he stays a dal-chawal sort of guy
Diving into the Murky World of Scandals
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The Traditional and the Suave
The timeless drape sees a major revival with new-age dhoti enthusiasts reawakening to its allure
The Artificial Way to Work Happiness
Gen Z seems to have got the workplace right, artificially. With 31 per cent of them reporting a healthy relationship with work, it places them ahead of Boomers, Gen X, and Millennials.
Uncomplicated and Compelling
The story preserves not only the characters' voices but also their goals and actions, which are convincing and believable
Inside Mindscapes that Define Us
Three artists engage with Nature and make a statement that explores the geological, cultural, and material facets of our planet
Of an Age Gone by and a Language Lost
Our villages have become ghost villages; will our language take the same road? A googly was flung at me by a student.
Are Adult Friendships Really that Hard; Why Not Make the Effort?
Despite the plethora of digital platforms that promise connection and community, 79 per cent of GenZs and 71 per cent millennials describe themselves as lonely. In the US, 12 per cent of adults say that they have no close friends. While finding avenues for connection have increased exponentially over the years, maintaining friendships, especially adult friendships, have become harder.
