Mother & son mission GLAMMING UP VILLAGE LIFE

Hard work, independence and respect for others have always been the cornerstones for nurse Leigh Tabak when it comes to looking after independent and aged-care residents – and raising her five children

- Kasia Jillings

Son Jason Edkins remembers this well, saying growing up, he was inspired by his mum’s devotion to those she cared for. In fact, it had such an impact on him, when he discovered his own passion for dementia care as a teenager, he followed in Leigh’s footsteps.

“I always felt comfortable in those environments and I always admired Mum’s approach, and how she engaged with residents and families,” shares Jason, now 41, who worked in the same retirement village as his mum when he was 15. “I found my knack as a caregiver and my passion for dementia care, then went on to do my nurse training.”

Leigh, 62, recalls Jason swearing he wouldn’t become a nurse, but she’s not surprised he changed his mind.

“It came very naturally to him,” says Leigh smiling. “As a teen, he was the only male in a carer role and the residents adored him.”

Both have had enduring careers as mental health nurses and plenty of experience in aged care and retirement communities. Leigh was even eventually hired to replace her son when he left Christchurch community, Arvida St Allisa, in 2019.

“The residents loved that I was Jason’s mother,” tells Leigh. “The similar smile and the fact they knew him so well made my entry easier. It’s unusual to follow in your son’s footsteps, but I rely on him more than he relies on me.”